Ever wondered why it’s so easy to get close to people but when it comes to letting go, it’s unbearable?
Humans are interesting little beings. We always go looking for what we want in life, if it’s a love story, success, money, fame, and then when we get those things and they’re suddenly gone, we feel like the world is falling apart, as if we have nothing left to live for.
But we forget that we have EVERYTHING else to live for. People who say they lost everything really need to have a Snickers bar. Pfft, seriously.
Why are we so consumed by the idea of having those things? The way I see it, everything you ever wish for is within you, and once you realize that, your hopes will materialize with you being at peace with yourself. Don’t glorify what you wish for, doing that only makes that thing go further away from your reach.
It’s so easy to dive into our random thoughts, but it’s difficult to find a way out. Train your mind to focus on what’s important. Like for me, this is what’s important:
I had this at Magic Flakes Cafe, a new place opened behind Safeer, on the same building as Al Adil Supermarket. Better check it out!
Anyway what was I saying.. Yes, food.
No wait, that wasn’t it.
The other week a friend and I went to the mountain tops. It was so beautiful, Fujairah is so full of beauty it always astonishes me. I love this place:
I should stop changing topics so quickly, I tend to do that often. I would have asked you to point it out when I do that but then I thought about it, you can’t.
Going back to our topic…
My advice is, stick to what’s important in life. Believe me when I say this: things do get better, when you are at peace with yourself. When you can make yourself happy without anyone else’s help, that is peace.
When you don’t hold grudges and look at other people, that is peace.
When you only wish the best for others, that is peace.
When your judgmental habits cease to exist, that is peace.
And finally, when you have to let go, it doesn’t end up being as painful as you thought, that, my friend, is being at peace with yourself.
Those are my thoughts for the day, I do hope you’re having a blissful time, enjoy the holidays while you can, those things never last for too long.
Until next time, Fajrawis,
Sindiya, The Sign.
